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Hindu beliefs about death

The Hindu faith is centred around reincarnation; the belief that when someone dies, the soul is reborn as a different form. They believe that although the physical body dies, their soul remains and continues to recycle until it settles upon its true nature. This can take many lifetimes, and with each death they strive to move closer to Brahma, the Hindu God. Additionally, they believe their soul’s next incarnation will depend on the actions throughout their previous life, this is also known as Karma.

Hindus cremate

After death, Hindus believe that the physical body serves no purpose, and therefore does not need to be preserved. They choose to cremate their loved ones as they believe it’s the quickest way to release the soul and help with reincarnation. Historically, Hindu cremations would take place on the Ganges River, India, and the family would carry the casket to the crematorium site. Nowadays, Hindus are cremated locally, and most funeral directors can accommodate the traditions and rituals of a Hindu cremation.

Hindu funeral rites

Traditionally, Hindu funeral rites take the form of chants or mantras which are overseen by an officiant, usually a Hindu priest or the eldest son of the bereaved. They will gather the family and friends and lead them in the various Hindu death rituals. These include:

Washing the body with ghee, honey, milk, and yoghurt
Placing essential oils on the head of the deceased (turmeric for females, sandalwood for males)
Placing the palms in a position of prayer and tying the big toes together
Dressing the deceased’s body in smart clothes (contemporary) or wrapping it in a white sheet (traditional)
Placing a garland of flowers and ‘pinda’ (rice balls) around their loved ones
Putting a lamp near the head or sprinkling water on the body

Death is a Hindu funeral

According to Hindu death rituals, the body should remain at the home until cremation – this is usually within 24 hours of the death. Due to the short time frame of Hindu cremation, embalming is considered unnecessary. It is customary for family and friends to visit the home of the bereaved to offer their sympathy.

Happens at a Hindu funeral

The casket is carried into the crematorium, feet first, while mourners recite prayers.
An open casket displays the deceased, and guests are expected to view the body. This should be done respectfully and without touching the person who has died.
A Hindu priest and senior family members conduct the cremation ceremony (‘mukhagni’).
Traditionally, the mukhagni is only attended by men, however, modern Hindu funerals allow women to attend.
The day after a Hindu funeral, the ashes are scattered over a sacred body of water or a place of importance to the deceased.
How long does a Hindu funeral last?
Usually Hindu funeral services don’t last longer than 30 minutes, however, this will vary depending on the wishes of the deceased, and their family.

Wear to a Hindu funeral

Unlike other religions, black is considered inappropriate for a Hindu funeral. Instead, funeral etiquette is that mourners (both male and female) should dress in white. No head covering is required for either sex and open-toe shoes are also acceptable. Women should dress conservatively, covering their arms and knees.

Bring to a Hindu funeral

It is not common to bring gifts or flowers to the funeral, instead, they should be given to the family ahead of the ceremony. Food is also not part of Hindu custom.

Happens after a Hindu funeral

Traditionally, the Hindu mourning period ranges from 10 to 30 days. Throughout this time, families may display a picture of their loved one, adorned with a garland of flowers, somewhere in their house. Visitors are also welcome during this period.
On the 13th day of mourning, it’s common for the grieving family to hold a ceremony (‘preta-karma’) where they perform rituals to help release the soul of the deceased for reincarnation. Additionally, on the first anniversary of the death, the family host a memorial event that honours the life of their loved one.